Woman comes out as ecosexual and says she’s in relationship with tree
A woman from Vancouver Island, British Columbia, has candidly shared her experience of being in a relationship with a tree and identifying as ‘ecosexual.’ Sonja Semyonova, a 45-year-old self-intimacy guide, stumbled upon this unique connection during daily walks in 2020, seeking solace during the pandemic.
While initially bonding with the oak tree for its comforting presence, Sonja described her experiences as evolving into something ‘erotic’ by the summer of 2021. She explained, “I was walking a path near the tree five days a week for the whole winter. I noticed a connection with the tree. I would lie against it. There was an eroticism with something so big and so old holding my back.”
Despite yearning for a human connection, Sonja found a sense of intimacy and support with the tree, emphasizing the feelings of being small yet secure. She clarified that her ‘erotic energy’ with the tree did not involve a physical sexual relationship, dispelling the misconception that ecosexuality implies a direct sexual engagement with nature.
Sonja highlighted that ecosexuality, for her, is about exploring the erotic in a different way, such as witnessing the changing seasons and the vibrant life force in nature. She stated, “There are similarities between sex with people and the eroticism ecosexuals feel with nature, but they’re not the same.”
Encouraging a broader perspective, Sonja suggested that ecosexuality is inherent in many people, citing the common desire for outdoor activities like picnics and hiking. She believes these activities tap into the life force of nature, which she describes as the erotic. According to Sonja, fostering a more symbiotic and erotic relationship with nature could potentially contribute to addressing the climate crisis.
In a unique take on environmental advocacy, Sonja’s perspective challenges conventional approaches, sparking contemplation about the intricate connections between human emotions, nature, and ecological responsibility.
